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The Debater's Trap
We enter conversations seeking connection but default to debate seeking victory. This is a trap. The moment you try to win the point, you lose the person.
You feel the heat rise. The words get sharper. You have the perfect counter-argument. The final piece of logic that will prove you are right. This is the moment. The moment a conversation dies and a debate is born. It feels like a battlefield. It feels like a chance for victory. But it is a trap. Wh…
The NPC Trap
Stop living by someone else’s script. Shift from being an NPC in your own life to the protagonist of your story, using focus and humility to regain clarity and control.
The script is predictable. Wait for the prompt. React. Follow the predetermined path. Do the pre-programmed actions. That’s the game of the Non-Player Character. It’s safe, it’s easy, and it’s not your story. The alternative is to be the protagonist. The protagonist owns the narrative. They decide w…