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Get rid of your life bucket list
Bucket list might be one of the worst thing we can do on our life. It confines ourselves becoming a tick-box checking machine.
Note-making
Note-making is more important than note-taking. Then convert the sequence of ideas into output of writings. This is essentially Zettelkasten.
Pratfall effect
Competent people become more likable when they make mistakes - it humanizes them (Pratfall Effect). Your “dirty imperfect self” builds the real, sticky connections AI can’t replicate. Go talk to three people today.
First exploration, then commitment
Why you feel out of control? Most people in their 20s face foreclosure: committing without exploring alternatives. They compensate with external pressure—high-stakes jobs, constant deadlines—but this creates productivity without purpose since foreclosed identities rely on external rather than intern…
Reassurance seeking
Reassurance-seeking trains your brain you can’t handle uncertainty—anxiety drops temporarily, then bounces back worse. Meta-analysis of 181 studies shows intolerance of uncertainty (IU) is the transdiagnostic engine behind anxiety, OCD, depression (r=0.51). Fix: ERP therapy + small daily practice (o…
Popularity doesn't define truthfulness
Algorithms amplify what triggers attention—sex, status, outrage. Popularity doesn’t define its truthfulness, choose what you consume instead of always accepting the trend.
Rest is the most beautiful note
My absolutely favourite note in music is Rest (silent note), not a Jazz #iv/V7. Use silence in conversation too, show the intentional touch of what you speak, and allow audience to ponder and feel it.
Start at the end
Most writers ramble because they don’t know where they’re going. Start at the end. Know your landing point. Then finding the beginning is easy—and you’ll cut everything that doesn’t drive toward it.
The 5 ones
Spreading your expertise across ten things builds confusion, not business. The 5 Ones—one target market, one offer, one conversion method, one traffic source, one year—turns scattered work into focused breakthrough.
Use calendar
Everything (included doing nothing) takes time. Calendar is more important than to-do list.
CI/CD everything
CI/CD + TDD naturally makes you focus on what matters. Not letting side tasks to affect the most important things. It might be applicable to non-programming stuff too.
Use git-based CMS
Just use a git-based Content Management System. We no longer need separate database or complex API for self-hosted blogs. Sveltia CMS is lightweight, headless and framework-agnostic.
Breathe before you speak
Breathe before you speak. It signals you’re thinking, not reacting. More importantly, it grounds you. While doing anything, breathe and relax.